Griff Hope your Mom gets him to see that coming would be selfish

God, there's nobody more important on this planet than my brother....in his opinion, he is incredibly selfish and self centred, he will come up. I have said that it's likely I will just come down to have my dinner and go back up out the way
Harvey, I will be o.k.....and yes there are asylum seekers I the hotel now, they could well have been there when I was there but I literally just went into my room and as soon as it was late enough I went round to Steve's who made sure I had something to eat and was warm and then when he went back to work I just met him part way through his shift and stayed with him for an hour or so. Brenda has very kindly said I could stay with her but in all honesty I will just keep out of the way. I was speaking to Steve about it today and I just said the list of things that we are supposed to do is madness and anyone with half a brain cell would just say let's forget it for now but he is that selfish he will just want to come up and Steve said.... yeah and cause bother, which is exactly what he does, he shows up to animal lovers and starts going on about eating reindeer and how their fur is the softest he has ever worn!! He then torments the dogs to the point where he has nearly been bitten, I told him and my dad did and still he carried on, I had to say that if the dog bit him I wouldn't be having them PTS. Any subject he knows best about it and wouldn't ever admit he is wrong

I really hope they can find what's troubling Xena bless her, sending lots of good thoughts her way

He's still in a strop, Kelly.

We knew there'd be fall out and of course he's had a taste of what it's like to socialise whenever he feels like it and now can't so he's bored like the rest of us.

I too hope you get some good news and good meds for Xena to help her, Harvey.

Kelly, your brother is totally different to my lot. Every time I talk to them I get told to be careful, stay in etc, etc, etc. Truth is, with their jobs they are at far more risk than us. No way would they come over this year

Griff offer stands for here.

But it will all come back, but hard to explain when you want it now like my nephew....a minute is next year in his thinking

Snap no one has been past my doorstep family wise since March; they leave things on the front or in the back garden. Only people in have been the service for boiler and the men delivering the freezer.......Wow never realised. Think I must live a boring life as I never noticed.

Snap again. Good thoughts winging there way over to you with lots of love.

Thank you all...you are kind. I am by no way perfect but I don't set out to deliberately wind him up or cause arguments

Maybe you should shower him with love attention and just annoy the hell outof him in the nicest possible way.