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11-09-2005, 02:23 AM
Originally Posted by Cumbrian Lass
I thought I'd read this one before Luz. It's in a book isn't it?

I also think however that some people do love their dogs and have no choice but to give it up for rehoming. It doesn't mean that they love the dog any less, in fact in some circumstances it's the best thing. As for people giving them to vet to be PTS. I think that is totally selfish! (Our vet lets us know when these come in and so we ask if we can take the dog and rehome it for them)
Totally for re-homing, I got my Barney from the cat & dog shelter and think they are heaven sent people for being there for the poor animals brought to them. I for one would be a bad person to do the job as could not contain my resent and annoyance to the people who have dogs and dont understand the need of such a pet.
I go over the same thing daily but:- babies, young children need constant care and attention.
:- puppies, dogs no different. Then why do we have this problem, because the government wont accept that animals should have anything like what a child has.
Bull ****. Both the same. I fostered children for 5 years and saw the crap that comes with it. I hate politics but when it comes to animals I feel they let the poor things down. My dogs know my feelings as much as I know theres nobody can tell me they dont feel what i feel & likewise. Sorry I ramble but to me this issue is a strong one and I dont do enough I feel and wish i could do more. Any suggestions??
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11-09-2005, 02:54 AM
Originally Posted by Luz
Totally for re-homing, I got my Barney from the cat & dog shelter and think they are heaven sent people for being there for the poor animals brought to them. I for one would be a bad person to do the job as could not contain my resent and annoyance to the people who have dogs and dont understand the need of such a pet.
I go over the same thing daily but:- babies, young children need constant care and attention.
:- puppies, dogs no different. Then why do we have this problem, because the government wont accept that animals should have anything like what a child has.
Bull ****. Both the same. I fostered children for 5 years and saw the crap that comes with it. I hate politics but when it comes to animals I feel they let the poor things down. My dogs know my feelings as much as I know theres nobody can tell me they dont feel what i feel & likewise. Sorry I ramble but to me this issue is a strong one and I dont do enough I feel and wish i could do more. Any suggestions??
I know how you feel Luz and yes it is very frustrating. As for gov't doing anything... get real.. Animal welfare is the last thing on their agenda IMHO
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11-09-2005, 04:27 AM
Originally Posted by nemosmummy
just wanted to share this with you all.
It really tugs on the old heart strings and makes you think a little differently, i for one will certainly think twice about ever giving a dog up without absolutely having too

"HOW COULD YOU??"

When I was a puppy I entertained you with my antics and made you laugh. You called me your child and despite a number of chewed shoes and a couple of murdered throw pillows, I became your best friend. Whenever I was "bad," you'd shake your finger at me and ask "How could you?" - but then you'd relent and roll me over for a bellyrub.

My housetraining took a little longer than expected, because you were terribly busy, but we worked on that together. I remember those nights of nuzzling you in bed, listening to your confidences and secret dreams, and I believed that life could not be any more perfect. We went for long walks and runs in the park, car rides, stops for ice cream (I only got the cone because "ice cream is bad for dogs," you said), and I took long naps in the sun waiting for you to come home at the end of the day.

Gradually, you began spending more time at work and on your career, and more time searching for a human mate. I waited for you patiently, comforted you through heartbreaks and disappointments, never chided you about bad decisions, and romped with glee at your homecomings, and when you fell in love.

She, now your wife, is not a "dog person" - still I welcomed her into our home, tried to show her affection, and obeyed her. I was happy because you were happy. Then the human babies came along and I shared your excitement. I was fascinated by their pinkness, how they smelled, and I wanted to mother them, too. Only she and you worried that I might hurt them, and I spent most of my time banished to another room, or to a dog crate. Oh, how I wanted to love them, but I became a "prisoner of love."

As they began to grow, I became their friend. They clung to my fur and pulled themselves up on wobbly legs, poked fingers in my eyes, investigated my ears and gave me kisses on my nose. I loved everything about them, especially their touch - because your touch was now so infrequent - and I would have defended them with my life if need be.

I would sneak into their beds and listen to their worries and secret dreams. Together we waited for the sound of your car in the driveway. There had been a time, when others asked you if you had a dog, that you produced a photo of me from your wallet and told them stories about me. These past few years, you just answered "yes" and changed the subject. I had gone from being your dog to "just a dog," and you resented every expenditure on my behalf.

Now you have a new career opportunity in another city and you and they will be moving to an apartment that does not allow pets. You've made the right decision for your "family," but there was a time when I was your only family.

I was excited about the car ride until we arrived at the animal shelter. It smelled of dogs and cats, of fear, of hopelessness. You filled out the paperwork and said "I know you will find a good home for her." They shrugged and gave you a pained look. They understand the realities facing a middle-aged dog or cat, even one with "papers."

You had to pry your son's fingers loose from my collar as he screamed "No, Daddy! Please don't let them take my dog!" And I worried for him and what lessons you had just taught him about friendship and loyalty, about love and responsibility, and about respect for all life. You gave me a goodbye pat on the head, avoided my eyes, and politely refused to take my collar and leash with you. You had a deadline to meet and now I have one, too.

After you left, the two nice ladies said you probably knew about your upcoming move months ago and made no attempt to find me another good home. They shook their heads and asked "How could you?"

They are as attentive to us here in the shelter as their busy schedules allow. They feed us, of course, but I lost my appetite days ago. At first, whenever anyone passed my pen, I rushed to the front, hoping it was you - that you had changed your mind - that this was all a bad dream...or I hoped it would at least be someone who cared, anyone who might save me. When I realized I could not compete with the frolicking for attention of happy puppies, oblivious to their own fate, I retreated to a far corner and waited.

I heard her footsteps as she came for me at the end of the day and I padded along the aisle after her to a separate room. A blissfully quiet room. She placed me on the table, rubbed my ears and told me not to worry. My heart pounded in anticipation of what was to come, but there was also a sense of relief. The prisoner of love had run out of days. As is my nature, I was more concerned about her. The burden which she bears weighs heavily on her and I know that, the same way I knew your every mood.

She gently placed a tourniquet around my foreleg as a tear ran down her cheek. I licked her hand in the same way I used to comfort you so many years ago. She expertly slid the hypodermic needle into my vein. As I felt the sting and the cool liquid coursing through my body, I lay down sleepily, looked into her kind eyes and murmured "How could you?"

Perhaps because she understood my dogspeak, she said "I'm so sorry." She hugged me and hurriedly explained it was her job to make sure I went to a better place, where I wouldn't be ignored or abused or abandoned, or have to fend for myself - a place of love and light so very different from this earthly place. With my last bit of energy, I tried to convey to her with a thump of my tail that my "How could you?" was not meant for her. It was you, My Beloved Master, I was thinking of. I will think of you and wait for you forever.

May everyone in your life continue to show you so much loyalty.

story by Jim Willis knew I'd read it before. He wrote a book with lots of stories in too. very good :smt023
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11-09-2005, 06:54 AM
oh god that is so sad and soo real unfortunatly we see dogs being given up for stupid reasons I wish this was given with every puppy bought might make people think more
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11-09-2005, 08:50 AM
I hope I'm writing this OK. Can't see for the tears. This happens so frequently we all know that, but can't stop it. So very sad!!! :smt022
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11-09-2005, 08:52 AM
That quite upset me :smt022
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11-09-2005, 09:01 AM
Originally Posted by Luz
Totally for re-homing, I got my Barney from the cat & dog shelter and think they are heaven sent people for being there for the poor animals brought to them. I for one would be a bad person to do the job as could not contain my resent and annoyance to the people who have dogs and dont understand the need of such a pet.
I go over the same thing daily but:- babies, young children need constant care and attention.
:- puppies, dogs no different. Then why do we have this problem, because the government wont accept that animals should have anything like what a child has.
Bull ****. Both the same. I fostered children for 5 years and saw the crap that comes with it. I hate politics but when it comes to animals I feel they let the poor things down. My dogs know my feelings as much as I know theres nobody can tell me they dont feel what i feel & likewise. Sorry I ramble but to me this issue is a strong one and I dont do enough I feel and wish i could do more. Any suggestions??
:smt022 :smt022 :smt022
I agree Luz I also took in other peoples children and saw what some parents were capable of some people she not be allowed to have dogs or children
If only all people realised when they first think of getting a dog that dogs need just about the same amount of attention and level of commitment that is need for having a child and in many instances they will have a dog for the same length of time. I know there are people who have a change of circumstances that can't be predicted but I am sure in many cases it is lack of forethought and understanding that fills the rescues.
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11-09-2005, 10:03 AM
Originally Posted by Cumbrian Lass
I know how you feel Luz and yes it is very frustrating. As for gov't doing anything... get real.. Animal welfare is the last thing on their agenda IMHO
Put Gordon Prescott down replace him with a beautiful rescued Greyhound (less feeding too) then see if it gets the plight of dog shelters noticed.
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11-09-2005, 11:18 AM
im sorry if it upset you guys but just needed to post it

I had to rehome my beloved rocky, he was a doberman x and was a terror but we loved him so much,, rocky had a skin condition which in turn gave my son extreme eczema and we had to make the horrible decision to take him back to the rehoming shelter,, i will never forget that day as long as i live, we set off and cried all the way there, my OH had to stop the car because he couldnt bring himself to drive any further and when we finally got there and handed our baby over it was like one of my kids dying i still get very upset about it now, i patted him on the head, gave him a kiss and told him i loved him, and with that i burst into tears all over again, we had to go for a coffee before getting back in the car to compose ourselves and then when we got home, everything was a reminder, his bed, his food bowl, we cried for what seemed like an eternity and i called the shelter every day to check on him, after his time in quarentine and assesment he was rehomed straight away, we still think about him now and will never forget him , and when i read this i was devasted it made me feel so awful, seeing it from the dogs point of view, and we had good reson to rehome rocky, i dont know how anyone can all of a sudden decide they no longer want their pet

I hope one day the shelters and breeders hand out this poem with every dog so everyone will think twice before giving up on their pet
thank you to every one who read this and posted their comments
it really affected me and i just wanted to share it with you all

kimberley x x x x x
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11-09-2005, 02:07 PM
I made the stupid, thoughtless thing of showing this my mum. She had to rehome Harry. She did it privately and went and home checked etc. so that she knew where he was going but it doesn't make it any easier.

They had no choice but it really affected my mum and that's one reason we haven't had a dog since before Takara because she felt so guilty for letting one go.

I can't believe I showed her this, she was so upset and I just didn't think
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