griff lots of reasons for being tired, no shame in making an appointment just to check things are ok.

Margaret really not well high doses of water retention tablets not working, having a canula in the arm later today to give her medication, painkillers etc., she cannot move her legs they are so bad and hardly communicating now.
Profiling bed being delivered tomorrow for her. She has nurses/carers going in daily in the morning to wash and dress her now.
I am popping over one day next week to be arranged so Michael can go shopping, I will sit with Margaret.
Not looking good at all she had a scan liver is bad and kidneys not functioning well hence the bad water retention.

Awww gosh Lynn....I am so sorry to read this, I know there's no cure but such a shame she has deteriorated

Oh, poor Margaret. She must be so uncomfortable and how devastating for Michael to be able to do nothing more than offer comfort . I hope the bed help her.

No I won't be going down the police route unless there is nothing the care manager can do. I'm hoping that she can sort it all out when she comes back on Monday. I don't know what, but she has plenty of experience so I'm keeping my fingers crossed

Chris, I would imagine she will go along the lines of you have no reason to come here, let's hope the girl takes notice....I am guessing she must realise that she has damaged any chance of getting a property there. This might sound really terrible but, it's good in a way that this has happened before she was offered a property...I think the situation would be much more difficult if she lived there.

Chris I suppose (don't take this the wrong way) being deaf is a good thing she can knock shout etc all she likes and he does not hear her but taking a "carer" with her is a bit naughty at least the flats manager can resolve that.

Lynn so sorry to hear how quickly really Margaret has deteriorated, love and hugs to all.

Its raining pouring here

Thank you all. Yes she has gone down hill very quickly.

Chris I am guessing the manager knows all the right ways of going about things without you having to become involved hopefully.

Raining here to.

I've had a word with the girl herself tonight. I've told her that I am not interfering in any argument with Gary, but whatever happened she won't put it right by pestering him and to leave him alone a while.

Maybe it will do some good, maybe not. Time will tell.