now come on Ian it could be worse ..........I could be your carer

I'm a hard woman you know

NAH, you've got a heart of gold,

It must be very common for people to form relationships (and I don't mean purely se3ual but emotional as in friendship) with their carers and vice versa. It's probably human nature especially if people are isolated and it happens in other walks of life too - work life, driving instructors, teachers, doctors, nurses, etc.

lol exactly! You can't take away peoples little treats. When my first OH was in hospital I'd bring in a case of beer and a big mac, with the consultants approval as when someone is so ill it can do them good to have a treat and be 'normal' for a minute..... even when his medication said avoid alcohol!

That's one thing I can say, she won't touch a drop if she is working, not even sniff. But bygum (sp) if she is off on a sunday she let's her hair down on the Saturday night.

There you are Ian, sorted, Inca and I will be round later!

(My OH says a packet of chewy toffees is always handy as they keep me quiet for a bit )

Would dread to think the fuel costs everyday! although I suppose you could be a live in carer!

Ian

Quite right too!

You don't know by how much though! Want to know?

LOL............... if you lived with me hun you would def need the samaritans