If I had stayed with (who I thought was perfect for me) ex, then my life wouldnt be anywhere near as fab as it is now. Ex had a fab job (IT) cool flat (Edinburgh) loads of cash, very outgoing and "trendy" downside? He ditched me (cos I was too normal, and erm too English (He was Scot)

6 months later, I found Kerrie, and the OH. He has a good job, (legal exec) but we are not rich, we have a two bed terrace in the middle of nowhere (cool to me!) and I have to nag him to ditch 20 year old shirts. But Im far happier, relaxed and happier with the OH than I ever could have been with the Ex. (Who btw is still single!)