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Location: March, Cambridgeshire.
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 35,267
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I have a dilemma
Some of you may remember late last year a friend of mine had a black lab called Paddy who use to play with Ollie he was just turned 7 and had cancer and sadly had to be pts towards the end of last year.
Anne and her partner Bob were devastated.
Anne has had to go back to work full time so Bob took over the walking of Paddy he is elderly and very unsteady on his feet and we all use to worry about him.. I often offered to walk Paddy but he preferred to do it himself.
At the beginning of the year Natalie who does a lot of rehoming mentioned about a chocolate lab bitch around 9 months old that Anne was interested in I asked how Bob felt as he had always said when Paddy went he couldn't manage another dog he never let Paddy off over the field as he knew if he run off which he did sometimes he could not run after him, Anne was often over the field with him off lead till she had to go back to work, so it was down to their Neighbour to give Paddy a run with their dogs when they had the time, I hasten to add they didn't mind doing this.
I saw Anne this morning on her way to work coming back with Ollie from our walk. She has asked if I will have a look for black labs, she hasn't a lot of money not sure if she wants rescue as she wants to train it her way and obviously the bigger the dog the more pulling power it has and poor Bob will struggle.
Personally I feel this is all wrong. Anne will walk the dog weekends. I know when Paddy turned up Ann's daughter bought him after they lost their elderly lab and Bob said he would not want another one after Paddy.
I agreed with Natalie when she told me about the rescue lab that Anne is a fair weather walker which wasn't a fair comment as before she had to return to work she was always out walking him often we walked together. I meant to say she does not have the time now and I worry about Bob. I did see him yesterday walking down the lane as it is the first decent day we have had in along time. Maybe they are now thinking they can manage another lab.
I am not sure whether to say I cannot find any to fit their criteria. My views are they should buy from a good breeder or rescue but if money is tight and they don't want to go down the rescue route maybe that is my get out clause that I can't find anything suitable.
I feel really bad as I know the emptiness a beloved dog leaves and I truly feel sorry but I really feel this is not right and I am not even sure if Bob will know till it turns up on the door step.
I know in my heart that I am going to make the excuse I cannot find a pup within their budget and my beliefs in dog breeding will not allow me to direct them to the local papers or free ads. I did ask Anne how much she had and she said not a lot as little as possible.
I am interested to know what you would do ? Do you think I am doing the right thing or am I being mean ?
Sorry for the long and rambling post.