**need everyones opinion**

hi all,,
i need all of your opinion

ok here goes,, i know this girl who lives with a friend of mine,, anyway she is like lodger and does things that to me are not at all acceptable and i just wondered if i was maybe over reacting??

this girl is about 19 and she wanders about the house in just a towel in front of my friends husband!! i would go nuts if it was my husband!

she also mianders down the stairs in nothing but a robe that does not do up and so she constantly holds it closed, but i have had an eyefull and to do this in front of not only my friends husband and me and my OH is dis respectful.

The other week her Boy/f and "SOMEONE ELSE" came round and before long my friends hubby was forced to leave his own home as a result of the very loud banging and "oohs and aahss" (if you get what i mean), as it was making him rather uncomfortable

her last antic was inviting her boyf round without mentioning it to the home owner and proceeding to do the oooohhhh aaaaahhhhh thing all over again!!!!!

if this was my home and my lodger i would be totally peeved off,, am i being unreasonable or would you all be a bit miffed too????

just wanted your honest opinions

kimberley x x x x

I for one would have thought your friend would have set some house rules.

Maybe you could mention to your friend how uncomfortable it's making you and your OH feel with thier 'lodger' wandering round in nothing but a robe. I would insit that she be dressed before she comes down the stairs.

Yes rules sound like a good idea!

Not entirely sure how well rules would go down with a 19year old tho but it's worth a try.

rules are already in place but the girl in question seems to think they are a joke

In that case she should be shown the door (or she would in my house anyway)

depends if she is a friend or a pying lodger....i would have to ask myself how much i needed the money to put up with it?

Carole I agree, she would be shown the door if she lodged in my house

Exactly, though I'm afraid I'd show her the door anyway.

Making that poor man leave his own home?? not a chance!

Rules, definitely.
She sounds horrid.