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19-06-2008, 08:09 PM
Originally Posted by Mummy2Max 
You didn't sound rude as I have actually tried that already, but unfortunately his msn is set to not record histories and so the view previous conversations option is blanked out.
My suspicious mind again.......
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19-06-2008, 08:09 PM
Originally Posted by Mummy2Max
The thing is I've always said to myself that there is no way I would ever take any amount of crap from any guy, but now that I'm in the position, I know what I should do but I'm really finding it tough to have the courage to do it
I think what some of you have said is right though, I'm going to leave it until Monday and see what happens first - unsure yet as to whether or not I'm going to follow him, but he has told me that he's going to his parents on Monday, so maybe I'll pretend I need to speak to him and give them a call, at least then I'll know if he's lied to me about that or not - I feel awful for being so suspicious
Far better just to come out with your suspiscions right now, confront him, tell him of your fears, he'll either cuddle up to you and tell you not to be so silly, or he'll get his guard up and then you'll just know, like we always do! I feel for you, I really do, this can be sooooo stressful and worrying for you, but sometimes you have to take the bull by the horns and do what's right for yourself, afterall, it's YOU who's suffering not him at the moment, and if he is contemplating getting up to no good, he's on cloud bl@@dy 9 at the moment isn't he, whilst you're all stressed and worrying, and you'll end up making yourself ill, just like I did for no reason, I'd never, ever do it again, I'm worth far more than that! I'm a tough old bird now, and he knows he'd never get away with anything like that with me again either! Please be kind to yourself and have a word a.s.a.p.
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19-06-2008, 08:17 PM
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19-06-2008, 08:17 PM
I would be honest about my feelings and give him a chance to explain himself.
That is what I would do but whatever you decide we are all here for you xxx
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19-06-2008, 08:27 PM
Originally Posted by Mummy2Max
Ok I'm going to stop being a wimp and sit down with him when he gets in tonight, which should be within the next 45 mins. I'm terrified but I know you're all right really, I'm sat here shaking at the moment
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19-06-2008, 08:40 PM
This is exactly how it started with my ex, chatting online, to hiding it when i walked in the room, to meeting up, to having an affair, to breaking my heart!!
Please have courage and have it out with him NOW!!! I would hate for anyone to go through what i went through, I'm sorry to be so negative but the signs are classic.
I really hope i am wrong but you need to find out whats going on.
Good luck hunnie, we are all here for you. xxxx
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