hehe I am sure we all are
Mia has 'pook pook' which means we are gonna bump noses

thanx jackbox for your reply, yeah my kids never see me kissing him as there at school and then out after school at there friends, it rarely happens, and it was mostly to put my partners mind at rest it's not an a agression thing but merely he isn't comfy with it. but as said not one rule for one and another for another, so no kissing from me no more lol. i always tell people as well when they try and let there kids come to him what he is comfy with and what he isnt. they dont listen i walk away.

dont worry im fully aware of how to and how not to, as i said it was purely to get input and show my partner he's reacting normally, now she knows he doesn't like it and it's not a behavioral problem, she is aware if the kids do try it's a stern no. if only she could read him like i can read him, but she's learning. only thing i need to do now is drum it into my lad, my other 2 eldest know not to and as i say to them let a sleeping dog lie.