Originally Posted by
Gnasher
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However, things took an extremely bad turn for the worse. Ben went for my husband, did not bite him, but it was serious.
I'm not sure how this is related to using a shock collar, Gnasher? Has this improved? there are ways to get dogs used to having their collars taken even after not so gentle treatment...
... In addition to this, he and Tai were having terrible fights, serious fights where Tai always got injured.
That is worrying indeed - was there any reason, any trigger? More to the point, are they OK now?
On top of this, Ben started to run off, having previously been pretty obedient off lead. He never ran away, just ran off.
Could be many reasons for his alteration in behaviour...what methods had you been using for sorting out the fighting? his running off may have been related to those.
Over the last 6 or so months, we have tried everything. We have consulted several dog trainers and behaviourists in the area and beyond, and we have explored every single training technique,
Agree with other Dogsey members, this is not ideal as there has been no timefor any one thing to work. I would be extremely surprised if any method worked with this time limit given that several were used. May I ask please who you went to for help? Not names, as that's not fair, but for example "dog whisperer" "positive trainer" " shock collar trainer" "degree behaviourist" "CM person" "behaviourist" etc.
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However, my husband was adamant, ... he is the one who does the exercising during the week and the general dog care, and has to go searching for Ben
I was very very uncomfortable doing this, as I am terrified of electricity, but he told me to keep doing it until we got to the higher levels, when he shrieked and jumped! I dropped the controller unit and burst into tears,.....He explained to me that he was just winding me up – he has a very black sense of humour – and it hadn’t hurt at all,
I think that was
very unfair of your husband. Black sense of humour or not, that was unkind and also rather mocking of your concerns
it was static electricity not current, just like you get when you touch a metal filing cabinet or your car
And the truth is that it really,
really can hurt, depending on the individual. Try it at a high level . I get it a lot from my car and believe me, it hurts, even though I know it is coming! I try my best to avoid it!
Did he try it on you? he
should have done, to be fair. Having you try it on
him is too easy.
Get him to try it on you and ask him to unexpectely turn it up to level 50 or so and leave it there for about 10 seconds. If it does not hurt, a lot, I'd be very surprised. If he has a Dogtra, they go up much higher of course.
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I will probably get castigated for this, but I am not ashamed of what my hubby has done - I wanted to present the "other side" of the e collar debate. There are very exceptional circumstances IMO when it can be justified.
I disagree, I am afraid. I think your husband was wooed by people who are adept at talking about saving a dog's life. I think he then pushed this on you and pretended they do not hurt, possibly treating you as a "silly woman" who knows nothing about electricity, albeit kindly. He did not even try the collar on you!
I realise you are concerned a bout Ben, but I feel that you have taken a wrong turn here. You may be lucky and it may be that things improve, but ... if there is any kind of falllout .. if your husband presses that button when Ben is near another dog or animal or child, there may be hell to pay on a completely different level.
I am very worried that your husband has pushed you into this, thinks he knows all about it ( I take it he's not an experienced or qualified dog trainer or behaviourist?). Therefore he does not have the behaviour understanding to use this. Has he been told of the possible fallout effects?
I am just giving a link to a few articles as it may help avoid pitfalls with Ben ... the first one gives
Case Histories of problems encountered, including a dog put to sleep becausae of shock collar use
, and the second is more general.
One very big bit of advice - whatever you do, do NOT allow your husband to use the collar near to Tai, as if Ben
thinks Tai has bitten or attacked him, there could literally be hell to pay. Warn your husband, please
http://www.dog-secrets.co.uk/negativ...-shock-collar/
http://www.apbc.org.uk/sites/default...nsultation.pdf this makes very interesting reading generally, but scroll down to the near end and the Case Histories. They make sobering reading.
Wys
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