How would your sister feel if she came to this site and read what you have just put in this forum luke?

Well she would feel as she should remorsefull, she regrets it more now then ever, i posted it as an example, and to be honest Saz, its tough i ahve my belief she has hers, and its as simple as that, i disagree with many things they do in their life, and to be honest whom i tell and how i tell them is my business, if they made the decision to have an abortion and it was public news then they have to face up that it isnt going to remain silent.
Best wishes

but some of these young girls are not fit to be a mother of a baby and at the end of the day the child gets the blunt of it because the mum is too young or immature so in some cases it could be the best solution.
i suppose if you didn't want the child you could always put it up for adoption.

Saz edited it now

Jesus, she is your sister!!!! You got a lot of growing up to do, that was harsh

I Give up......

LOL, as you can see my sisters and i dont get along, i think she was highly un repsonsible, there were other circumstances that led to this, which i'm not going to go into, but lets say she had fair heed, of the situatuion before she opted to end her childs life before it began

I hope i have not started a full scale war, i was just genuinely interested as i feel really strongly about this.

we all make mistakes in our lifes not just this topic....you can't hold it against her for the rest of her days.
ok you don't agree with her choices in life but she is your sister at the end of the day nothing will ever change that fact.

Luke, sweety, it's her story to tell, not yours - something like this is incredibly personal - and even if you don't get along it is too strong ammunition against a person.

Luke, you know I think the world of you but please try and see it for what it is, a situation that is incredibly private.

xi