Sorry to hear about the terrible situation you are in Roxy Don't know what to suggest because it isn't an easy situation is it Lets hope you win the lottery or something then you can buy a bigger house and your nephew can then come and live with you
How awul for you, we are going through a similar situation with my hubbies twins, if you want a natter, pm me, be glad to ffer any advice i can. big hugs.
What ever decision you make will be the right one Roxy, you will put him first no matter what, even if you can't take him in its for a reason. Hope you find a solution for all concerned xx