i know guys, thats why i said i wasnt willing to stick with it and change!

Because i know, that if we stayed together id still always have what he said in the back of my mind and never feel good enough and i dont deserve that.

So onwards and upwards....

(ps....organising a date as we speak - only this one thinks im gorgeous!!! )

Oh Alex, I am really shocked to hear this, with you getting ready for your wedding and everything, but have to say it can only be for the best. He sounds so shallow, you would be wasted on him, just console yourself with the fact that you have had a narrow escape and there must be someone out there far better suited to you.

You go, girl!

PS: can you get a refund on your dress?

x0x

no cant get refund now...but never mind its a very popular dress so will sell it!

and yes, greg is very very nice! ...actually down in essex!!

Really sorry to hear this hun but he doesn't deserve you. Go organise your date with a fella that appreciates you for you We're here if you need us. xx

sorry to read this Alexandra, he does not deserve you, better to decide now though rather than waiting till after the wedding. And as the others have said, you don't need to change, there is nothing wrong with you the way you are, it's him that's got the problem.xx

What a pillock, Lucky escape hun, if he dosent love you for what/who you are now, then whats the point!!!!!

Big hugs though it must be hard & sad before your wedding. Still better now than on the day. Go & give the REAL love of your life (thats yiour DOG btw) a huge hug & eat a great big peice of cake!

thanks guys....

its appreciated..

alex
xx

(ps china is curled up next to me and i have my bottle of red and heat magazine to hand!!!)

Sorry in a way, but definitely think its for the best if he really wanted to change you that much.

I must admit I had several relationships before meeting my current OH. One of the things I love so much about my OH is that he takes me exactly the way I am - I've never ever had to pretend to be someone different.

I'm sure the right guy is out there for you. Just promise me one thing with your new date - don't rush into another serious relationship - enjoy being 'wooed', flattered and idolised, but keep it light hearted until you're sure you are ready.

(((hugs))) to you, you seem to be taking it all so well.

oh dont worry!!! i have 5yrs to catch up on!!!!! im quite happily gonna play the field!!!!


and i suppose im taking it well as i was feeling ready for us to split anyway...