very nice (now being serious ) better to talk about things have a sit down together and have a chat

good point but some times your so angry or hurt with the comments it is hard to do.
maybe in a few days but it is hard when they come home as if nothing has happened because you need to clear the air to move on.

I know how you feel Sutty, my ex was always in the right, and more often than not, he wasn't. He'd blow his fuse over stupid things. I'd end up feeling like it was all my fault.

The person I'm with now doesn't argue. It's quite refreshing considering the type of relationship I had with my ex.

I hope you manage to sort out your indifferences

must be something in the air.....after 3 days of not talking to Mr lazy Inca I told him last night to go and ask all his friends and work mates to see if they all get home from work fall asleep within 5 mins .eat dinner then go up for a shower and fall asleep on the bed ....then go to bed

don't clean car or walk dog or in fact do aything that might mean work

ps...he pushes a pen for a living

lol @ inca good for you but i bet he wont ask!

I've got one like that His contribution to washing the car is getting the stuff out for me and his idea of walking the dogs is either coming with me, or letting them out into the courtyard while he's getting washed and dressed

well he has just rang and asked what i was up to i said have just scrubbed patio down ...washed and hooverd the car and done 3 loads of washing he replied isn't Scott (son) helping you ...i replied no I'm used to working on my own !

i get that ask oh to do some thing and he passes it on to my lad............ thats blokes for ya...........now inca tell him you have saved the ironing for him when he gets home.

thanks everyone, sorry fred, dont mean to tar you all with the same brush lol. not too bothered about the cooker, i think i can get a part for that, but the cup i threw was one i rescued from my granny's bungalow after she died, it was sitting on a shelf all by itself, so i took it to remember her by and now its smashed so im very sad about that. the dogs have been very quiet today, lol, dont think they know what to make of me. i should think things will be ok eventually.