I'm also very sorry to hear of your wife's death. She sounds like she was a wonderful & thoughtful lady & you must have some lovely memories of your life together.

Am so sorry to read this, your wife must have been a strong and beautiful lady. No one should be disturbing or bothering you at such a time, i've put a 'NO CALLERS' sign on the door/gate before, when needed to be left alone. Thinking of all of you, take care
H n Scoop.

so sorry for your loss x

I'm so very sorry for your loss and how people have treated you xx

I am sorry for your loss. I don't blame you being rude. They are soo out of order.

Point out that all those things are available for sale in various charity shops around. Bet they won't want them so much then.