That's the same reason I have to leave the Bernese groups Kazz plus it hurts seeing some of my friends who have pups younger than Brewster and some around the same age doing so well with them. Seeing the older ones that people have managed to navigate the bad times with them.
Chris I am sure if Brewster was smaller and a mini land shark with more attitude than he should have we would cope.
Or if we were even 10 years younger we could cope.

Kazz Darby and Joan is this evening.

Evening all
Kazz, the head shrinker is for mums eating, he has said she could have a gene where she basically doesn't get hungry and suspects that I have a gene that means I never feel full. He is going to put it in a letter.
Very busy helping my mate, never thought I would be compiling complaint emails to the police again but here we are. I am on standby for it kicking off, doesn't scare me nor his plastic gangster mates.

Evening griff your friend is lucky to have you. I am sure she appreciates it.

Oooh that's interesting about your mums and your genes

Interesting Griff about genes, I find it fascinating.

Lynn its purely a case of every card against you has been played

Have a little more time now
Brenda, I wouldn't worry too much until you need to, if his family want to waste money contesting a will, so be it....a solicitor letter is around £300. You can reply to the solicitors yourself unrepresented to keep costs low and just get a solicitor or on the day barrister as required...tbh though, if you think our costs were £36,5000 pounds they would be slightly mad given the fact he had ample opportunity to change or make a will and also you are his medical next of kin.
Lynn, I firmly believe that dogs can have conditions such as ADHD and autism, I swear Kota is autistic....the vet mentioned similar, once we get her into a routine, she kind of settled but it's hard to change from that routine, things have to be done in a certain way at a set time and any upset in routine sets her off, she's quite good on the whole but definitely a very steep learning curve and as much as I love her.....by far my worst dog experience.
Sue, I sincerely hope your sons car is fixed soon and you don't need to lend yours out again!
Kaz, these will be my last dogs and it will be the first time in 20 odd years that I won't have had a dog, that said, if a rickety old staffy happened along who just needed someone to love them for a short time and be with them when they passed.....I guess that would be o.k ( as much as I hate having them leave)
Chris, I think your lad sounds lovely, allowing you to have a dog without the concerns of what if.....I literally have nobody, my friend with a rescue said mine can go to her because my brother completely refuses.
I love my mate to bits, she's actually a friend of my mum's but a bit younger than me...she calls me big sis, I have been in contact with her much more recently as she knows that I am a bit handy and I help her with legal stuff and just advice and an ear for her, it's hard because they have mutual friends and sadly, you have to reassess your situation and friendships...been there and done that! It's going to be long and drawn out for her but she is standing up to the monster....me, personally I believe that a bullet for people like him is the best solution!

My youngest lad is lovely all round, Kelly. He makes friends easily and always had. He's gone through a lot with the b*tch of a wife he had, but, bless him, he co-parented having the kids three days a week while they were growing up and has always been there for them no matter what. It's reciprocated though now that they are both adults and they spend more time with him that with their mother.

He's one of those rare human beings that will go out of his way to help anybody without a second thought.

I really am proud of the man he has become.

He was the easiest of my kids. Always smiling. Never jealous if I had to give a bit more time to Gary