A little dog's BIG problem - aggression, separation anxiety
Hello all
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well as you know not so long ago Polly our 6 and a half year old JRT had a dicky incident with the box of chocolates and is very lucky to still be here, well since then she has sort of just been resting and returning to her old self. Well this is where the problems have begun again, now certain DW members of which i speak to on MSN have been told what she is like and why in our cul-de-sac all the little children call her the Queen Of Darkness
, but it is really getting out of hand so i thought i would get your advice.
Polly our JRT is slightly now ever so slightly brain damaged from a stroke she had a few years back, but the vet has assured us that this isnt the reason for her problems, now Polly was a rescue we adopted her at 6 months, she had been kept in awful conditions with far to many dogs and just had generally a poor life.
Now we adopted her at 6 months, and at the time we had 1 elderly and deaf SBT and a couple of cats but they all kept Polly in line, but as time took a hold we had, had Polly a mere 3 months when our elderly SBT was PTS through old age, and from this she began to sort of become 'obssesed' i suppose. She began to become my shadow, and i dont mean like your average dog i mean compulsive, before my illness to a hold and i went to public school she would hide under my bed all day until i returned hom, generally she had to be 2 steps behind me, and she is still like this today i.e i go to the bathroom she waits by the door, im in bed she sleeps on the pillow beside me, im having breakfast she sits on my feet, im on the PC she is asleep on the back of the swivel chair, but i digress.
So our elderly SBT had died, and she began to be my shadow, and then 1 day my friends and i were messing around on the bouncy castle for my birthday and one of them fell on me and she went nuts and lunged at them. And this sort of protectiveness become more and more frequent, she is allways at her peak say if im sitting on the couch and she's on my lap and someone sits next to me she will growl and growl continuoslly (sp?) until they move. Yet again i digress, so back to when it all started.
We had, had her like 18 months when she had a stroke and this left her with a heart problem, it isnt life threatning but its a worry, and of course slightly brain damaged as she wasn't breathing for some time, she is normal except when she gets excited she can sometimes wet herself, and she grunts, and sometimes dribbles when she concentrates for too long. So after spending months recouping she was back to her feet, but in her time of recouping, i had been diagnosed with my illness, causing me to be home schooled and at home for most of the time, so she spent most of her 'recouping' time with me, and she began to become even more obssesive over me. The outcome her now not leaving me at all, even when i have tuition to this day she has to sit on my feet, she also became more possesive over me with people and other animals, and this is when her aggressiveness to dogs on walks started. She generally became like a stalker, we became inseperable. During this time her attacking of people and other animals and people became worse, and i guess i made it worst by if she was on my lap and went for sum1 putting my arm out to sort of push them away, she probably saw me doing this as a signal to do it moreso infact thinking about it she usually got worse.
But now, now she has started to out do even her own standards, she attacks Florrie if she gets to close too me, as she does with Clementine, she killed one of our rabbits as she saw me 1 day giving him a cuddle, she barks at every1 and everything, if i sit down she has to sit on me, if i walk around she has to walk basically in between my legs, she has to do everything and go everywhere with me. Now recently i have sort of started to live more despite my illness, which often means going out with friends etc to places that isnt dog friendly meaning Polly has to stay at home, and its like when i do she hides under the bed till i return and then when i do she wont come near me for ages and when she does she will give me a hard bite as if to tell me off and then she will sit on me.
She has generally become a nightmare, now i know its my fault for babying her way to much but i need help and advice, any ideas on whats the cause?
And any ideas on what to do to assist in curing the problem?
oh and BTW she has been checked by the vet who has confirmed it isnt medical.
As you can tell from the size of my post and probably the rambling content i really am at my wits end, looks like we will be on the next series of 'Its me or the dog'
Best wishes