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Originally Posted by
Promethean
One strange aspect of the Alpha people is that they still want their animals not to attack strange dogs. This to me seems to counter the whole pack/dominance mentality where strangers are rebuked by the pack almost automatically and they follow up with full force when necessary. Yet, for the most part this doesn't happen. So how does the acceptance of strange dogs in the park or even its own own house reconciled with the pack idea?
Being an alpha is NOT about attack and physical dominance, Promethean. The alpha male in a wolf pack is NOT aggressive, attacking all who disobey. That is down to the Beta Enforcers.
Alpha males in a wolf pack will ONLY display aggression when they absolutely have to - to fend off a take-over bid maybe, but even then the beta enforcers will normally do this for them. An alpha will fight for his life of course, but in most other circumstances will not. There is such a huge misconception surrounding alpha-ism, it is not based on dominance, it is based on control.
Hal, our old alpha male boy, was extremely accommodating towards other dogs coming into his house. Why shouldn't he be? He was alpha male, and as such could afford to be magnanimous. I remember one occasion when next door's airedale terrier (beta enforcer by rank, a not very pleasant dog sadly) escaped from his garden and came onto our drive, where Hal was snoozling on the drive on his chain. I was pottering around with the garden, and before I could stop him, this dog had entered our house for a nose around. I went in and ordered him out, and as he emerged from the house, he attacked Hal on his chain. Up to this point Hal had ignored him, but he stood up for himself. At this point, the Airedale's owner came rushing onto our drive, picked up a yard broom that was leaning against the wall and started bashing MY dog over the head !! Rather naturally, I took very grave exception to this, seeing as it was her dog who was in the wrong here, and told her to stop. She actually cut my dog's face very badly because there was a sharp bit on the end of the broom handle, and did apologise.
He was absolutely fine about doggie visitors coming to stay. We were adopted by the village dog (a long story!) , a lovely old collie who decided one day that he was going to move in with us. In he came, and stood there growling at Hal, who was lying at his master's feet in our sitting room. I held my breath thinking o my Lord, Bertie is going to be in big trouble. Not a bit of it, Hal graciously got to his feet and moved aside for Bertie to lie down. That was the first and last time that Bert growled at Hal, after that he hero worshipped him and they were the greatest of friends. This was not Bertie being dominant of Hal, just the opposite.
The park scenario was just the same. We live in the depths of the countryside so have no need to take our dogs to a park, but Hal would be wonderful with other dogs simply because he had no need to be otherwise. He was frequently attacked by other dogs, and he would just duck and weave and stay out of trouble, quelling them with one of his "black looks". He never lost one of these challenges, and the only injury he ever inflicted on another dog was when another next door neighbour's dog pinned him down by his throat, and to save his life literally, Hal bit him through his pad to make him let go. It did.
He was so supremely confident, he just sailed through life shaking off these irritations like confetti !! The bitches of course all absolutely adored and worshipped him, falling at his paws in their admiration !!
I hope this answers your question Promethean.