Im definatly not going to try and get pregnant, and we are taking all the necessary measures if you know what I mean. In my sane mind i DONT want a kid now, but it the broodyness is something i dont seem to be able to help!
I dont want to risk my relationship at all and if that means waiting then thats what happens Its just gonna be tough emotionaly



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Haha, soooo not brave enough lol plus i want to be proposed to!!

Well she was unhelpful as ever - I dont have tonsilitis (despite knowing how they feel and them being swollen!!) i just have a cold and after that I didnt even touch on the hormone stuff with her as I was rather peed off by this point #(and they were running almost an hour late!!)

Will be changing surgeries tomorrow and then will make an appointment with a new doctor who will hopefully give me some a/bs!! Silly woman. Will be off to the hospital to get some if it gets any worse!!

However am now totally reaping the benifits of the whistle training i did with rox!!

[QUOTE=Pawsonboard;2346697]Im definatly not going to try and get pregnant, and we are taking all the necessary measures if you know what I mean. In my sane mind i DONT want a kid now, but it the broodyness is something i dont seem to be able to help!
I dont want to risk my relationship at all and if that means waiting then thats what happens Its just gonna be tough emotionaly



Did you ask the doctor about you feeling broody?

[QUOTE=Westie_N;2346701] No, only cause by that point i was at my witts end, was hoping to see a different one but alas i did not. Hopefully new doctors and new gp on monday.

Only me again.

Just wondering how things are with you? Did you go to see another doctor about your feelings?

Aw thankyou for checking up on me

Im still awfully broody, but ive been so busy with work and OH leaving his job that ive not had chance to dwell on it. A couple of my friends have had their little ones and my god-daughter is due in feb so lots to look forward to and to keep me busy.

When I do get a few seconds to think about it, it still does upset me but there is no way im in a position to have a kid- and I would regret it, knowing that the only reason I bought a life into the world is because I was feeling broody.


I love my job, I love spending all day with the dogs and love going to the car cruise with loud cars and all of that and im not ready to give that up......

i think....



Though the sad thing is I would in a heartbeat.
Id exchange all of it for dirty nappies and being up all night.

Funny how hard things can hit you when youve supressed them for a while isnt it...

Doesn't sound to me like you are 100% sure just now and the life you have got just now sounds great......enjoy it just now!

In my heart I am 100% sure what I want

Theres a fight between what I know I NEED to do and what I want more than anything

Sorry, right old misery guts this evening!

That's okay, it's allowed.

I do hope your head rules your heart just now anyway.....plenty of time for babies.

huge hugs as this is a feeling i know well, it can be hard to see others get what you want. Even if maybe you know its not the right time its still hard to surpress those feelings xxx

As others have said there is no right time to have a child and there will always be some reason not too. But i think you both have to be on the same page for it too work. Have you chatted to your other half about how deeply you feel about this stuff? If all the crap of the last 3 years has taught me anything its that men are alot more thoughtful then we give them credit for sometimes

i had my first whilst i were still at school , it doesn`t have to ruin your life having a baby at such a young age , it only does if you let it