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Location: Suffolk, England
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Originally Posted by
Alice Childress
Maggie had a teenage moment and decided to ignore me completely and was desperate to go and play with the other dogs (which involved her barking and dragging me around
), this vile handler said that Maggie was aggressive, said that I should have socialised and trained her (ie suggesting I had not)
and then hit Maggie on the nose hard enough that Maggie jumped back Needless to say, I left immediately and made a complaint but nevertheless still feel quite shaken by it. I've spoken to our regular trainer and she says that that woman is talking nonsense and that Maggie has obviously been very well socialised and described her as a 'bomb proof' dog, but still.
First, Maggie is absolutely gorgeous, I can see in her eyes what a wonderful dog she is.
Second, what a typical example of an arrogant human that women was. I just wish people would not try to make dogs into humans, they react with other dogs unlike the way humans react with other humans, you have to get into the brain of a dog and understand their ancestry to appreciate this yet here we have a human who has obviously not done any of that, it makes me so mad.
Our late Baruska was wonderful with humans but could, and often would, have a go at other dogs, nevertheless had that women hit Bara across the nose she would have regretted it and most likely be minus a hand or even an arm
Please don't give up on the showing but could I please ask you not to make it an extension of yourself and go hyper competitive in order to reflect in a winning dogs glory.
In the ring there will be times when Maggie doesn't do everything right, even times when she doesn't do
anything right, but just accept those times, don't please listen to the 'chatter' in the washroom, don't listen to those who profess to be experts, and above all just enjoy being with Maggie doing something together and take it as it comes.
I've never done any showing but I've been told many times about how competitive it can be and all the dirty tricks that some people get up to. That horrifies me, I wouldn't want to associate myself with such people.