The best one I heard was the girl who felt a hand on her bum when she was on a train, grabbed it and shouted - has anyone lost a hand coz I have just found this one on my bum!
Firstly he has put you in an awkward, horrible siruation and if it were me, I would tell my BF. Say it was no big deal and you can sort it out yourself but he should know it happened IMO.
The next time I saw him I would laugh about him having too much to drink cause if he was sober he would never do anything so stupid!!!!!!!!!

Not nice

Have to agree with Vicki too on this one, what a creep! If you don't feel you can confront him in any way or form as suggested, then tell YOUR boyfriend to have words with him, that should do it!!! You must put a stop to it right now, it could get out of hand very quickly from what I've read here.

I agree with trouble here. This seems like a good approach for you especially if you don't want to be openly confrontational. What a horrible situation for you to be in. I hope you can sort it out.

I'd take him to one side and tell him........where he will find his NUTS if he doesn't back off.

And express that a SURGEON maybe needed to retrieve them.

Sorry I wouldn't put up with that

Thanks everyone for your advice. Its one of those situations that if it was a friend of mine on the receiving end I'd be giving the same advice but because its me having to deal with it I'm not fancying doing the sorting out bit. (head in sand syndrome). That kind of means that I have to admit to him that I know he was doing it - thats just confronting it though isn't it.

I think I'm going to leave it all for now and the next time we get together, if he tries anything again I'll do as suggested and make a joke of it but making it very clear at the same time that I'm not impressed.

I think that knowing him as well as I thought I did (before he started this anyway) that it will be enough to get the message through.

My OH has been mates with him for over 10 years, even sharing a house with him years ago and they've been through a lot together. Although you probably think who needs a friend like that, at the same time, why should my OH be put through that when I can sort it out quietly.

Thanks again.

TBH men are a bit thick and he probably thinks you are up for it because in his eyes you havent said NO. Just tell him to back off or you will tell yr BF and his OH.

I think i would pressume he means nothing from it (even though you are sure he does) and next time he touches your foot say, in a loud jokey voice, "oh that's my foot you loon"......or " get your hoofing great foot off mine"etc etc.

Sometimes i think it works better if you act inocent as if you are sure he didn't do it on purpose.....think embarresment factor works well and makes the other people in the room aware of it too!

Oh gawd! what a situation.
You have to take action one way or the other. Doing nothing isn't an option as I think he'd just carry on.

I've actually used both ways before ( in my youth) I have deliberated trod on, poured drinks over and even threatened.
Do whichever you are most comfortable with - but do something!
Good luck, girl - and let us know what you do!

I had a boss when I was 19 and in my first real job who thought it was acceptable to come up behind me, massage my neck, put his hands on me, or tickle me while I was sat at my desk working. I must have warned him numerous times that I was extremely ticklish and one day my elbow would come back and hit him if he continued to do any or all of the above (entirely by accident of course). Told him it would just be a reaction and I wouldn't be able to help it. Few days later he tried it again and I elbowed him right in the most sensitive part of his creepy anatomy. I turned round in my chair to see him on the floor curled up in a ball gasping for breath and sweating like the pig he was. I said, ooh I'm so sorry but I did warn you what might happen as I am so ticklish.
He never came anywhere near me again!