oh bless, please be very proud of yourselves for doing the right thing. BIG hugs. xx

poor old dear .its very sad isnt it , i do think its best she dosnt know ,what good could it do ,if she finds out . she will be really frightened . today will be a memory you will look ,back on enjoy your time with her . its thoughtless really leaveing ,a sick old lady ,with the other kids ,its not fair on them (its daughters place isnt it ) tea would be good idea ,enjoy

Thank you, she is due to arrive any minute.....well that was the message from Nita

Awww...bless her. Well done Steph for having her for a few hours. I'm sure she will have enjoyed her time with youxx

Sorry NO folks....guess what Nita forgot to bring her......

Well her excuse was...I was on my way over from Edgbaston to pick her up to fetch her to yours....when I suddenly remembered that I had to be somewhere else!!!!!!

Just been discussing with Pat....might be better if we go for her. Will arrange another day now.

how shocking is that poor old dear

Oh, I hope she wasn't too disappointed...... poor old love....

Pat went and fetched Joan around 2pm today, she stayed till 4.30.
Bless her she is very concerned as to why her breathing is bad, but I reassured her that it is probably Bronchitis....I did feel guilty though, as she readily took my word for it.
She was busy talking about her old cat...who she obviously no longer can see, but he is her constant companion.
We sat out in the garden as the weather was very warm and I think she enjoyed herself...............moaned constantly about Nita, which I think made her feel alot better.
Two of the grandchildren came to see her, and she made a real fuss of the dogs...but she really loves dogs. In fact she was talking about getting one, but I managed to persuade her to wait till she is better.........Nita told her she could (stupid woman) No thought about who is having the dog after she has gone........and Nita won't I can assure you of that.

Anyway she wants to come again next week.....so I said that would be fine.

oh bless - well done you guys. xx

glad you managed to bring her over and she enjoyed her visit with you. You and Pat are something special *hugs*