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Originally Posted by
ELISSA
Hi
Thanks For Your Reply, Am Hoping The House Move Will Be 2 Weeks So Fingers Crossed Everything Should Be Ok, Will Put Some Pics On Soon, Cant Wait To Get Him Home!!
Ive Always Had Cats So Dogs Are Pretty New To Me I Am Trying To Do As Much Research As I Can Before He Comes Home, Another Thing Which Was Bothering Me Is Anxiety Seperation There Will Be Some Days When He Is Left On His Own Is This Going To Cause Too Much Stress??
If Buster is taught from a very young age that being left alone does not mean that you have abandoned him, then being left for a while shouldn't be a problem.
There are often times when I have to leave Max on his own and I knew this when I got him as a puppy. I began his training very young, I wanted him to learn that when I left, I was always going to come back.
Begin the training by leaving Buster in a seperate room for a small amount of time (5 -10 minutes is fine). If he howls or cries, ignore him and do not enter the room until he stops. He will need to learn that howling will not get him your attention. When he stops howling, or when the amount of time has passed, allow Buster back in with you and praise him. Do this several times for the first week (or longer if you feel you need it) gradually increasing the amount of time you spend apart. When you feel that this is going well, you can step up a bit by leaving the house, just going to sit in the car will be enough. Same procedure as before, gradually increasing the amount of time you spend apart. If you feel that it is too much, do not be afraid to slow down or take a step back and do not expect miracles
. The most important thing is that Buster feels comfortable with being left alone because he knows that you will return. And also the most important thing (and I cannot stress this enough) ignore any howling or crying as he will think that he can do this whenever he is alone (whether you have gone out, in the shower or gone to bed) and you will come running (a bit like a naughty child really
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Hope everything goes ok with Buster
must let us have some piccies soon