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Lionhound
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25-09-2009, 08:15 PM
What an awful situation, I hope you can get to see your GS soon. Stay strong and look after yourself xx
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25-09-2009, 08:17 PM
We are all here for you. Surely the SWs can see that being around a Grandparent is so much better than being with strangers and like has been said if they are taking parental rights away from your daughter does it matter what her wishes are? You do have rights to xx
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25-09-2009, 08:21 PM
Sorry to hear what you are going through it must be heart breaking. I hope you get to see your grandson & I hope that one day your daughter can sort herself out. Sounds like you are doing & have done all you can but you need to focus on yourself & your own health. xx
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25-09-2009, 08:21 PM
am so sorry to hear that you have had such a dreadful time

sending loads of hugs and hope you get to see your grandson

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25-09-2009, 09:24 PM
So Sorry Hope SS can help you to see your GS on Monday. Thinking of you x
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25-09-2009, 11:44 PM
So sorry to hear this hun.
being Foster Carers we see this all the time, the parents pulling from pillar to post and thier behaviours, just to be nasty and revengeful to grandparents/other members of family.

Hopefully the SW will see this too. If we as Foster Carers know of this going on we do try to speak to the SW as what is best for the child and sometimes the parents are over-ruled....I hope this will be the case for you, just to say goodbye. If not ask for postal contact see if they will agree to this, even if it is only on Birthdays and Christmas's, just so that he knows you are there. Best of luck xxxxxxxxxx

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26-09-2009, 12:09 AM
Oh I am so sorry, that sounds like a total nightmare
Hope something sorts out a bit better for you
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26-09-2009, 01:47 AM
So sorry to read this - it must be so difficult for you.

I really hope that things work out. xx
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26-09-2009, 02:47 AM
That is horrible news, it is very unfortunate that your daughter is using her children as pawns in a game. Hopefully common sense will prevail and you will get to keep contact with your GS. Hopefully seeing a councillor will help as you need to take care of yourself and make sure you stay well. Take care
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26-09-2009, 05:50 AM
just sending some hugs. have a 19 yr old son that i wont talk to as he hates me big time so know and can feel your pain.


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