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Originally Posted by
Sarah27
. This means that I believe that every human is inherently good,
On this I cant agree with you.
I think when we are born we all have a clean sheet..but we become what we become through many aspects of life.
And their are people in this world who are EVIL through and through..
Originally Posted by
honeysmummy
I agree that you should never be nasty to anyone but that doesnt mean to say you cant point out the facts.
Imo some people on this forum
are going on to much about "the bad people" and making everything worse than it is.
But you shouldnt hold back opinions....it is a public forum isnt it?
I totally agree with you. there seems to be a pattern going this way.. at every opportunity continuous remarks about the " bad members" .
Who gives one member the right to accuse others of being bad members.
Is that not judgmental in itself.
Surely if such members existed , Admin would deal with them.
As you say it is a public forum where you will have hundreds of opinions on one subject.. and everyone is entitled to voice them.
I also feel it is unjust of all this bullying accusations being thrown around.. I have seen no evidence of it.
Passionate debate yes, bullying no.
Originally Posted by
Minihaha
Hi Sarah
. Some people love a drama and can't resist seeing 'criticism' when most reasonable people will see none is intended.
You know over the yrs this forum has been going , we have seen some humdingers of debates on here, people have strong opinions , and we voice them..
But the one thing that always makes me proud to be a member here is that , no matter how much we differ on opinions, we will all act like adults... we can voice a strong opinion, and we can bicker till the cows come home with each other , yet the next day we can also agree and unite with the same people we where not 24 hrs ago arguing profusely.
It is what makes a good forum, difference of opinions.. and the ability to unite the next day.
Originally Posted by
Minihaha
I agree Honeysmum
however if you look you will see the people who ' go on' are few in number, they seem to be more because they are frequently the ones who shout the loudest.
It seems that way recently doesn't it.. people taking different opinions as a personal slur.. and shouting it from the roof tops!!
Personally I am not the sit on the fence type of person, never have been and I am to old to change now.
I have an opinion and will voice it.. if others disagree I have no problem with that.
It would never do for us all to agree on all aspects of life.
One thing that unites us here, and has done for yrs.. is the welfare of the canine.
We dislike and disaprove of bad breeders , we love good one.
But we continually get accused of being anti breeder when we dare to raise concerns
But there is the million to one question, is what is a good breeder, and as it shows up on a regular basis , different people will see it differently.
Originally
Posted by CheekyChihuahua
Losos, I often wonder if those who have BIG opinions on Dogsey, are the same in real life. I am known for "saying it how it is" in real life. However, I've heard that there are many people that get carried away behind the safety of a pc I was hoping to see some of those that are known on Dogsey for "speaking their mind", give their opinions on this thread but, sadly, they don't seem to have an opinion on this particular subject
Or maybe they just did not see it, or they have not been around for the weekend.
There sometimes can be a simple explanation, with out an undercurrent being set!!